Mike,
This is definitely the right family. Are you descended from John Coakley's second marriage to Nora? (We knew John to be John Cornelius Coakley known as Cornelius Coakley) We are descended from his marriage to Bridget CASHMAN. Marion (Coakley) Commo was my grandmother.
I would be grateful if you have any additional information that you are willing to share. We are disconnected from my grandmother's brothers (my great uncles) and their descendants.
Maribeth Fish Bradley
granddaughter of Marion Coakley